Board Thread:Suggestions/@comment-26529401-20150627205813/@comment-26513974-20150628131418

It is not the issue of 'How would you feel?' here, it's the issue of childish reactions. I highly doubt 'How would you feel?' kind of questions is the way to address problem, as I the way I see it, you are imposing your immaturity through expressing switching places with another person in how you feel, in other words, complete and utter selfishness. With the way you suggest that he care for how others feel, you are seriously implying more selfishness to him and make him reply more childishly to what he is doing now.

I am really serious when I say that those kind of questions are really selfish. In fact, I completely detest people who keep asking that kind of question.

Instead of asking that sh*tty question, how about ask for game respect and ground rules? Or atleast tell him to be a tad wee bit more gracious in accepting defeat instead of unconsiously TPing away or other players to him. Things like this impose respect and rules instead of selfishness and stupidity like that question.

The 'How would you feel' question is simple, but implies a lot more dark and depressing introspect than self-reflections on the emphasis of regret and guilt.

By asking him on asking that kind if question you are simply telling him you are more selfish than he is.

Before you say I am biased, you should know that I completely agree with people who say that he should get a suspension for his childishness. But I do not think implying selfishness will help any further.

The part where I detest people is my opinion, but the effects of the question itself? It's a fact. I'm gonna let you decide wether to accept the fact or not, which will really say alot about your intellect and maturiy.